14: Happiness Within Constraints

Happy Monday!

Last week was pretty light in terms of part-time creator work. Thatā€™s just how it goes sometimes with a full-time job. But, looking forward to stepping up my game a bit this week to make up for the lost time.

In this weekā€™s newsletter, Iā€™m playing with one rotating theme instead of the usual 3 (healthy, wealthy, and wise). Weā€™ll see how it works out. This week weā€™re going with a ā€œwealthyā€ focused one.

Enjoy.

šŸ’ø Happiness Within Constraints

Lately, Iā€™ve been diving deep into the world of finance and investing, gobbling up and reading as many books that I can get my hands on.

Iā€™m currently reading The Simple Path to Wealth by JL Collins. So far itā€™s been a pretty great read (highly recommend). In it, Collins talks about how money can buy many things. Fancy cars, big-ass houses, oversized electronics, breathtaking vacations, and lavish dinners to name a few. The ultimate thing money can buy, however, is financial independence.

Financial independence is having the means to do whatever you want, whenever you want, regardless of the cost. Itā€™s when you no longer have to worry about working at a job you hate because itā€™s your primary source of income. You work because you want to, not because you have to.

Collinsā€™ formula for achieving financial independence is simple:

  • Spend less than you earn
  • Invest the surplus
  • Avoid debt

If you do those 3 things and nothing more, some years down the road youā€™ll never have to worry about money again. Obviously, this is somewhat dependent on how much you earn. But I believe, as Collins does too, the more important side of that equation is how much you spend.

When I was 22, I worked as an engineer at a nuclear power plant construction site. My salary plus per diem totaled about $130,000 per year. I put some money in my 401(k), some went towards my student loans, and the rest I spent on fancy electronics, nights out, and weekend trips to new, exciting places.

I spent excessively, with little regard for my future self or well-being. Donā€™t get me wrong. I had a blast. But without a doubt, Iā€™d be a millionaire today if I managed my money back then the way I do now. Woof.

My spending at 22 was directly proportionate to how much money I made (and I made an awful lot of money for a guy that young). To no oneā€™s surprise, I made some dumb choices. I couldā€™ve saved and invested in my future. Instead, I chose to aggressively spend. Chalk it up to being young and relatively immature.

I believed, or maybe society led me to believe, that I needed to spend money in order to enjoy life. The literal definition of the American Dream. Today, Iā€™ve done enough introspective digging to know that I donā€™t really care about most of the stuff I spend money on. Yeah, things like nights out and chef-cooked meals boost my morale, but there are only a few key things I need for true, in-my-bones-type happiness:

  • My health
  • Strong, positive relationships
  • Meaningful work
  • ā€œMeā€ time (hobbies, relaxing, etc.)

Iā€™ve had periods in my life where Iā€™ve been forced to live well below my means in order to get out of debt and/or avoid taking on more debt. Those times were never ā€œfunā€, but regardless of the circumstance, Iā€™d always been able to maintain a baseline level of happiness.

And therein lies the key to spending less than you earn: being happy with who you are and what you currently got.

If you can find happiness within the constraints of your financial situation, youā€™ll have no problem sticking to Collinsā€™ formula above. After just a few short years of doing this myself, I can tell you that my happiness has actually increased as my unnecessary spending has decreased.

More importantly, financial independence is no longer a pipe dream for me. Itā€™s inevitable.

In an old parable, the kingā€™s servant says to the monk, ā€œYou know, if you could learn to cater to the king, you wouldnā€™t have to live on rice and beans.ā€ To which the monk replies: ā€œIf you could learn to live on rice and beans, you wouldnā€™t have to cater to the king.ā€

Have a good (no, GREAT) week.

Best,

Jason

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